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5.19.2008

Rogers Creative Referral Network News

Here are some tools to help you with your business:

One of Carrie Smith's favorite small business gurus is Karyn Greenstreet. Her company, Passion for Business, is devoted to helping small business owners run their businesses and their lives more effectively. She has tons of info on her website. Here are some links Carrie thought you’d be interested in:
Read her special report entitled "101 Home Office Efficiency Tips" at
http://www.passionforbusiness.com/101-homeoffice-tips.htm
Her newsletter comes out monthly, with great information for increasing your revenue and building your business. In it, you'll find articles you won't find anywhere else on the internet, plus great information and resources for self-employed small business owners. You can always view the current issue:
http://www.passionforbusiness.com/currentnews.htm
Get some great sales advice. Engaged Selling Solutions is a Canadian company that hosts a big conferencedevoted to the art of sales. This year, they did a number of free teleseminars on the topic of sales. You can listen to them here. It’s a great way to get some professional development while you’re sitting at your computer.
https://engage.infusionsoft.com/product.html?code=4c9c3e

Finally, I have a green tip for you: Cut the Paper! Even recycled paper requires an enormous amount of water and energy to produce. Eliminate the need for paper whenever possible. If you're a coffee drinker, try making your own at home. You won't produce any waste and the coffee maker will pay for itself with the money you save at coffee shops. Simply eliminating one three-dollar cup of coffee per day will save you almost $700 per year. Many cafes will also offer a discount if you bring your own mug. If 50 customers of a gourmet coffee chain were to use a reusable mug each day, they could help eliminate the need for 150,000 disposable paper cups daily. This equals 1.7 million pounds of paper, 3.7 million pounds of solid waste, and 150,000 trees a year.

If you would like to sign up to receive this reminder, go to our networking page at the Soar with Eagles web site at http://www.soarhigher.com/networkinggroups.htm to sign up. If you already subscribe, click the link at the bottom of the message to update your information.

Office Spaces for Rent

Near Village on the Creeks in Rogers
Professional Décor
Ideal for attorney, vendor or rep.
Furnished or unfurnished
Includes high-speed internet and utilities
Shared use of conference room, kitchen and reception area
Close to Wal-Mart HQ, I-540, ample parking
Rental from $350 - $800 per month (one year lease)
Call 273-7772 to tour the office.

Near Beau Terre in Bentonville
Three offices conveniently located off of exit 88 in the Dogwood Office Park. The office's are approximately 10 x 10, fully wired, with shared reception area, conference room and kitchen. The offices are available for only $515 per month. For more information, contact Justin Mills at (479)715-6747 office or email.


Very Cool Place to Live

Village On Shiloh offers condos with a two-car garage, 2 bedrooms and 3 baths for under $115,000 in Fayetteville between Weddington/Farmington Exits on the West side of 540
Pre-construction pricing stops at end April!!
No exterior maintenance, vaulted ceilings, full appliance package...come see it for yourself this weekend!
1180 sq. ft. and 1228 sq. ft. available $114,900 to $119,900!!
Model Open: M - F 1:00 - 6:00 pm, Sat 10:00 - 6:00 and Sun 11:00 - 4:00
For more information, contact Tevian Rose, Realtor, ABR, Benchmark Real Estate, Inc. at 479-685-0582 or email.

Host a Foreign Exchange Student

Face the World's mission is to provide all program participants with a quality experience that not only will enhance personal growth, but also establish friendships that may last a lifetime. Both here and abroad, we are all contributing to the development and education of tomorrow's leaders.

Face the World is looking for host families in the NWA area. Host families provide the student with a stable and secure home environment. In return, a host family will experience the joy of learning about a new culture and sharing in a new friendship that will last a lifetime.

We currently need three families for students in the Bentonville HS, 1 family for Rogers HS, and 3 families for Harber HS in Springdale.

If you are interested in enhancing a foreign exchange students educational growth and are able to provide an safe and secure environment as a host parent, please call Debra Barnes at 479-657-6930 or 479-899-7060 for more information.


Professional Women’s Network – Benton County Has a New Lunch Location

PWN meets the first Tuesday of each month. They change locations occasionally just to keep things fresh. For the next few months, they will meet at the brand spanking new Texas Land and Cattle restaurant at the Pinnacle Hills Mall. Full details are on their blog at http://pwnnwa.wordpress.com/.


Job Openings

Clinical Services Coordinator
Northwest Arkansas Crisis Intervention Center
Position Title: Clinical Services Coordinator
Status: Full-time, salaried, exempt
Hours: Regular business hours, plus some evenings and weekends
Qualifications:

Belief in the mission and vision of the NWA Crisis Intervention Center
Bachelor’s degree or equivalent professional experience
Ability to work with diverse issues and people in a non-judgmental manner
Demonstrated success in moving easily between cultures and populations
Responsible, dependable, and able to maintain strict confidentiality
Strong team player, excellent interpersonal skills
Excellent written and oral communication skills, bilingual preferred
Demonstrated organizational skills
Intermediate computer skills related to word processing, newsletter production, and data management
General Statement of Responsibility

The Clinical Services Coordinator is responsible for ensuring exceptional service delivery in all of the agency’s crisis related services (Helplines, CISM team, etc.). This position is also responsible for training new volunteers and providing ongoing training opportunities for existing volunteers in order to maintain quality volunteers in numbers appropriate for the needs of the agency and the services offered. The Clinical Services Coordinator reports to the Executive Director and works directly with the contract Clinical Supervisor to manage call sheets and oversee staff/volunteer direct service work while maintaining statistics and managing the iCarol database.
A. Volunteer Management:

Work with Community Outreach Coordinator to recruit and train those volunteers necessary for the successful completion of the agency’s work.
Screen potential volunteers in a manner appropriate to each intended volunteer placement.
Working jointly with other staff and area professionals, provide for appropriate in-service training in each volunteer placement area and for overall volunteer development.
Develop core volunteers or volunteer teams in leadership positions within service area, developing their leadership abilities and expanding their responsibilities as performance allows.
Keep volunteers up-to-date and informed through the use of a variety of means, including agency newsletter, mailings, frequent personal communication, etc.
Maintain complete and accurate records of volunteer screening processes, attendance at training and in-service, volunteer hours, etc.
B. Crisis Helplines:
Assist with answering Helpline calls, providing service as prescribed in training and as directed by the clinical supervisor. Complete all related hotline paperwork accurately and on time. Completing rotating week on-call as prescribed in separate position description.
Work to ensure that all Helplines are fully covered for scheduled hours and answered by trained and highly skilled personnel.
Maintain a Helpline training design appropriate to both the needs of the agency and the requirements of any certifying agency. Function as Lead Trainer for all Helpline trainings.
Ensure that helpline call sheets are reviewed and entered into database promptly and that regular written and verbal feedback is provided to Helpline personnel regarding their performance.
Design and utilize the forms and systems necessary for the appropriate recording and reporting of Helpline statistics.
Plan and lead a monthly in-service for Helpline personnel and provide for advanced training opportunities a minimum of 2 times per year.
Complete weekly and monthly Helpline schedules and transfer Helplines according to this schedule during a rotating week on-call.
Weekly compilation of consistent caller / inappropriate caller updates for Director On-call reports.
Weekly communication/meeting with Clinical Supervisor to discuss helpline developments, staff/volunteer questions and needs.
With Clinical Supervisor, develop in-service topics for discussion / trainings.
Regular maintenance and updating of iCarol database.
Compile statistics for monthly board meetings, quarterly and/or annual reports to funding agencies, and other requests as necessary.
C. Critical Incident Response Team:
Schedule appropriate initial trainings and regular in-service and refresher trainings.
Select, train, and supervise the volunteer CISM Team Leaders.
Maintain complete and accurate records of all CISM contacts and services delivered, including follow-ups.
D. Other duties as assigned by the Executive Director.

To apply, contact Shelby Chandler, Executive Director at (479) 756-1995 or email. Fax resume to (479) 756-2338.

Dispatcher

L & L Mechanical Services, the Linc Service Contractor for Northwest Arkansas is a well established HVAC/Service contractor in the state of Arkansas . L&L is searching for a DISPATCHER who will become an integral part of a professional team.
Essential Functions
Provide exceptional customer service
Accept customer phone calls and assign technicians to respond to service requests through software application
Track and monitor field technicians to determine availability to respond to service requests
Enter service calls into computer system and track progress
Produce invoices for all chargers related to emergency or unscheduled work orders
Audit work orders daily to ensure accurate billing and system entry
Data entry of tasking and scheduling of maintenance agreements
Process transfers of work orders from dispatch system to accounting system
Assist with pricing jobs for customers (spot work)
Issue purchase orders for tools and inventory as necessary
Assist with finding and ordering parts

Provide support to Service Manager, and provide additional office support as necessary

Essential Requirements
High school diploma
2-4 years of experience as a service coordinator/dispatcher preferably in the HVAC industry
Ability to multi-task
Strong computer skills
Excellent communication skills
Address inquiries to Kim O'Kelley

Learn More about the American Red Cross

The Bank of the Ozarks has partnered with the American Red Cross for several Community Appreciation Days over the next few months. Here is the schedule is listed below, and the flyer is attached for the first one.
May 23 Springdale - Jones Road (Harber)
June 6 Rogers - Olive Street
June 20 Bentonville - Walton and J streets
July 3 Fayetteville - Crossover near Mission intersection
July 18 Rogers - Pleasant Crossing near Wal-Mart Super Center
August 1 Bentonville - Highway 102 near Walton Blvd.
August 15 Bella Vista - Highlands
August 29 Fayetteville - Wedington
September 12 Rogers - New Hope near Promenade Mall
For more information, please contact Robin Dorf at the Northwest Arkansas Red Cross at 479-306-4688 ext 204 or email.

Yoga for People Afflicted with Multiple Sclerosis

Sara Bergman just returned from an eye-opening Teacher Training Intensive to offer yoga-in-chairs to people afflicted with Multiple Sclerosis. It was a wonderful week of learning from a highly skilled, and super big-hearted yoga teacher, Liz Franklin. It was a lot like Yoga Camp, we built new friendships and helped each other deepen our communication, sensitivity and teaching skills. I learned SO MUCH on many levels. Re-learning how to teach yoga in chairs to people who have physical limitations was a fantastic reminder of how blessed I am to have strength AND good health. Remind yourselves of this when you get bent out of shape or frustrated by something silly!

Sara would like to offer this program locally. She will be offering a FREE 8-week program. All she needs is the right facility in Benton County and access to participants. If you know anyone locally with MS who may be part of a support group, or if you have friends that work in the medical field, particularly, neurology, would contact Sara. She has already reached out to someone at the new hospital and am open to ideas and suggestions. The great part is, if this program is successful I will be able to continue offering free classes due to the generosity of the MS Foundation. For more information, contact Sara Bergman.


Arkansas Support Network 10th Annual Dinner and Silent Auction
Silent Auction Items Needed!

The Arkansas Support Network (ASN) 10th Annual Arkansas Support Network (ASN) Gala of Stars Dinner and Silent Auction will be held Saturday, June 7, 2008 at the Holiday Inn Convention Center . ASN will be celebrating 20 years of service to the NWA community!

Proceeds from this event support Kids Club, an inclusive summer day camp for children with disabilities. Kids Club is held in four locations: Fayetteville , Springdale , Rogers and Siloam Springs. The children who attend the camp have an eventful summer and develop lasting friendships with peers. The camp also relieves some pressure on parents in finding childcare for their kids during the summer.

There are several things that we would like for you to consider:
1. Attending the event. Tickets are $35 each. Tables of 8 are $250 and tables of 10 are $300.
2. Donating an item for the Silent
3. Inviting others to attend the Dinner/Auction or to financially support our efforts.

For more information on ASN, visit www.supports.org or call Denna Staton at 927-4100.

Be a Career Day Presenter

Southside Elementary School in Siloam Springs is holding our 2nd Annual Career Day on May 20th!! If you know of anyone in the community who would like to spend time in the morning/afternoon---or BOTH sharing their careers with 3-5 graders, we would love to have them!! We have 2 sessions in the morning, and 2 in the afternoon. We had a terrific turnout last year, and the kids and presenters LOVED the day.
Please feel free to send out the word!! Anyone interested can contact Phyllis Lauber or Pasha Pippin at Southside for further information! 524-3183

Friends of the Rogers Little Theater Needs Your Help!

The Rogers Little Theater will be conducting a Resource Campaign to raise money for operating expenses for the 2008-09 season. We are asking for volunteers to be a part in helping us sell sponsorships, advertising, and season tickets. In return there will be recognition and rewards presented at different levels.
For more information, we would like to invite you to attend an informational meeting giving about the campaign on Tuesday, May 20th at 6:00 PM at the Rogers Little Theater, 116 South 2nd Street , Rogers. Please RSVP by emailing us or by calling the RLT box office at 479-631-8988. Refreshments will be served.
If you would be interested in being on a team and/or being a team captain but cannot attend the meeting please contact us and we will forward you the relevant information.

Democratic Women's Association Annual Picnic

The Washington County Democratic Women's Association will host their annual pinic on May 27th, 5:30 p.m. at Veterans Park in Fayetteville , Arkansas . For more information, contact LaDonna Meredith at (479) 966-0471 or email.

Friday May 30
1:00 Shotgun Start
Stonebridge Meadows
For more information, MASON Memorial Foundation
Vania Earp (479) 361-6066

Mike and Debbie Pianalto established the MASON Memorial Foundation in May 2003. The foundation was started in loving memory of their grandson Mason. The MASON Memorial Foundation is based in Northwest Arkansas with a branch located in Wilkesboro , NC . Our mission is to provide charitable contributions, gifts and funding to individuals in need and to community institutions that work to improve the well being of children and families. We are currently helping families in North Carolina , Arkansas and Haiti . Money raised in Northwest Arkansas stays in Northwest Arkansas to help children in your communities.


International Festival June 7

The International Festival Committee of the Rogers-Lowell Area Chamber of Commerce would like to invite you to be a part of the 8th annual "International Festival", Saturday, June 7 at the Frisco Station Mall in Rogers. This event will be a fun filled day for all ages, everyone is welcome!
We are having exhibitors/booths, performers, music from all over the world, an international fashion show, children activities area, passports for the children, food from all over the world, and much more.
The mission of the International Festival is to promote, educate, and serve the diverse cultural interest of Rogers and northwest Arkansas . Our purpose is to provide an opportunity for all residents to interact with different cultures, values, traditions, and languages that are established in the area.
For information on how you can participate or sponsor, contact Vilma Domínguez, Minority Business Development Coordinator, at the Rogers-Lowell Area Chamber of Commerce at (479) 619-3186 or email.

Fifth Annual Challenge for Sight 5K Run

The Fayetteville Lions Club is hosting its Fifth Annual Challenge for Sight 5K Run on Saturday morning, May 24, 2008, starting at 8:00am at Vandergriff Elementary School in Fayetteville . All proceeds benefit those in our local community that need but can't afford to pay for eyesight care. And yes, we still collect glasses.
For more information, including registration information, click the attachment, go to www.FayettevilleLionsClub,org, e-mail or call Kelly Ellis at 479.236.2566. Come out and support this exciting and rewarding event! We look forward to seeing you there.

NWA Food Bank 5K Hunger Run

May 31, 2008 8:00 a.m.
Location: Northwest Arkansas Mall
Fee: Adults $20.00; Youth (12 and under) $10.00
Hit Snooze for Hunger (shipping included). $25 (shirt will be mailed)
Awards: Overall male and female winners and top runner in each age division will receive awards.

Registration: Runners may register by printing a registration form off our website, www.nwafoodbank.org, and mailing it with the event fee to the address listed below. Runners may also register the day of the event no later than 7:45 am.

Put a team together to represent your business!

Sponsorship opportunities are available for individuals and businesses. For information regarding sponsorship opportunities, please contact Katie Lay at 479-872-8774 or by e-mail. More information is available by visiting www.nwafoodbank.org


Kundalini Yoga Weekend With Mehtab And Guru Karam Benton

July 11 – 13 • Rogers , Arkansas • Presented by the RabBoar Studio
Come explore and learn Kundalini Yoga, the yoga of awareness, from two of the leading Kundalini Yoga teachers in the United States !
For more information, visit www.rabboar.com.

THE YOGA OF SOUND
Friday July 11, 6:30pm – 9:00pm
Enjoy a relaxing and fun evening workshop as we use music and the live sound of the gong to take you on a yoga journey! Simple yoga, guided deep relaxation and the music of the gong will take you where your mind and body have never gone before! Open to everyone.

KUNDALINI YOGA IMMERSION
Saturday July 12, 9:00am-12:00pm and 2:00pm-5:00pm
Kundalini Yoga uses movement, breath and sound to balance the chakras and awaken your energy. It is an ancient and dynamic form of yoga that quickly improves health on all levels. In this full day immersion into Kundalini Yoga, we will begin with the basics and take you through a transformational experience. You will study with the husband and wife team of Mehtab and Guru Karam who have taught thousands of beginning students this unique and powerful form of yoga. Open to yoga students and teachers of all levels. No previous Kundalini Yoga experience needed.

OPENING THE HEART CHAKRA
Sunday July 13, 9:00am – 12:00pm
When the Heart Chakra is opened, we are compassionate with ourselves and others in a healthy and empowering way. In this workshop, we will strengthen the physical heart and then clear away the past traumas, grief and disappointments that block us from experiencing the abundance of the heart. Some yoga experience, or participation in Saturday workshop is recommended.

ABOUT THE TEACHERS: Mehtab and Guru Karam Benton are the founders of the Yoga Yoga Studios in Austin , Texas where they have taught thousands of students and trained hundreds of yoga teachers. Mehtab began teaching Kundalini Yoga in 1974 inSan Rafael , California where he taught yoga in the public schools and in drug rehabilitation programs. He has taught Kundalini Yoga to students and teachers from around the world and is the author of ten books, including a book on Yoga and the Gong. He is a featured instructor in the University of Texas Master Class series where he plays the gong and lectures on the practice of yoga. Guru Karam began her life-long yoga practice at age 16 at a Kundalini Yoga Ashram in Houston , Texas . She has presented classes internationally on Yoga Nidra, the art of deep relaxation and brings a feminine perspective and lively sense of humor to teaching and practicing yoga. She and her husband Mehtab began the Yoga Yoga studios in Austin , Texas and has helped nurtured its growth into one of the largest yoga communities in the United States .


The Dalai Lama Renaissance

Presented by The RabBoar Studio (Rogers)
Saturday, June 28th, 2008 at the Arend Arts Center , Bentonville
Doors open at 3:15 P.M. (Show starts at 4:00 P.M.)

Forty of the world’s most innovative thinkers travel to India in the Himalayan Mountains to meet with the Dalai Lama to solve many of the world’s problems. What happened was surprising and unexpected. Narrated by actor Harrison Ford.

Tickets cost $10.00 prior to the event and $12.00 at the door (plus tax)
(if we mail your tickets there will be a 50 cent charge for handling and postage)
For more information, visit www.rabboar.com/studio and click on “Dalai Lama”


NWA Business Women's Conference Hosts Gladys Knight Sept. 30

This event is going to be a sell out, we're sure. Visit the Bentonville/Bella Vista chamber of Commerce website for more details as they develop.


6th Annual Fayetteville Chamber of Commerce Business Expo

This year it will be expand from just a business expo expo to include a Career Fair, as well! This event is designed to provide an opportunity for business owners to showcase the products and/or services they offer, plus provide an avenue for employers seeking to fill positions at their companies - all under one roof!
Thurs., June 19, 2008
11:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m.
Fayetteville Town Center
The Career Fair/Business Expo is open to the public and free to job seekers. Please register as soon as possible to secure your exhibition space!

Creative Referral Network Fayetteville News

Join us at Urban Table in Fayetteville, on the square, this Friday - 8:15 a.m. – 9:15 a.m. Bring your 90-second commercial on your service/business and lots of business cards. See you there! Donna 530.6462

AT A GLANCE:

May 31: Hunger Run for NWA Food Bank. Details below.

Arkansas & Missouri Railroad Spring Excursion Rides now available to Van Buren - call 479.725.4017 for info and reservations. The Troop Train will ride again on May 26 this year. Call for information.

Put the tennis tournament benefiting the Fayetteville Free Health Center on your calendar - it's scheduled for June 15 - 18. Check with the Clinic for information at 444.6033.

Urban Table has a new Spring Menu - check them out at the historic downtown square in Fayetteville. Remember, too, they are open on Mondays for lunch & dinner, as well as the rest of each week. Try the signature "Urban Table" dishes! You can reach the restaurant at 479.935.4646. New Spring Menu! The Patio is now open for your enjoyment. Come check it out!

They now serve Brunch from 9:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m. on Saturday - check out the Fay. Farmers Market and grab a bite to eat. The Urban Table Patio is now open, as well...enjoy your meal in the sun or shade!

Every Wednesday - 11:30 - 12:30, lunch and meeting of Optimist Club at the Clarion in Fayetteville. Call Sandy at521.4411 for information.

June 20 - Golfers, plan ahead for the Salvation Army 2nd annual golf tournament at Stonebridge! Sponsorship or sign up page is attached. Call Donna H. for information on sponsorships or to register, 530.6462.

Don't forget A Fare To Remember for Parties and all your catering needs! Call them at 387.0191 to schedule your event catering at your location or theirs.

The North Forty in Fayetteville is accepting event reservations at this time. Call Darlene Martucci at 521.3739 for available dates. Lovely entertaining in a rustic, restored family farmhouse. for your next Board Meeting, Business Seminar, party, etc.


Fayetteville, & Rogers Chamber information listed below.

Other Networking Groups:

Tuesday 8:00 - 9:00 a.m. - Donna SLinkallee's group meets at Iron Horse Cafe, south 1st street downtown Rogers. Email.

Thursday 8:15 - 9:15 p.m. - Marilyn McKim's & Buster Brown's group meets at Buffalo Wild Wings in Har-Ber Meadows. Email.

Friday - our own Urban Table Meeting - 8:15 - 9:15 a.m.

Alternate Meeting - Carrie Perrien-Smith meets 8:00 a.m. - 9:00 a.m. at Baker Brothers American Deli in Pinnacle Hills.

Professional Women’s Network Benton County, Rogers, Arkansas. 11:30 to 1:00 on first Tuesday each month at Copeland’s in Rogers. Contact Donna Sallee at McGhee Insurance Agency at 633-0505 or email. Location sometimes changes to keep it fresh and interesting. Contact Donna for current meeting place.

Women in Networking, Embassy Suites, Rogers, Arkansas, 11:30 to 1:00, next to last or last Wednesday each month. Check out their website at http://www.winnwa.com/.

From CRN Member, Marilyn Braswell: Check out the website at www.mountsequoyah.org for more information on the Music on the Mountain Concert series, or call them at 479.443.4531. Tickets are just $10/person.


Upcoming Events

NWA Food Bank
5K Hunger Run
Presented by
Panera Bread
May 31, 2008 8:00 a.m.




Location: Northwest Arkansas Mall

Registration: Runners may register by printing a registration form off our website, www.nwafoodbank.org, and mailing it with the event fee to the address listed below. Runners may also register the day of the event no later than 7:45 am.

Fee: Adults- $20.00 Youth (12 and under)- $10.00

Hit Snooze for Hunger (shipping included)- $25 (shirt will be mailed)

Awards: Overall male and female winners and top runner in each age division will receive awards.

Put a team together to represent your business!

Sponsorship opportunities are available for individuals and businesses. For information regarding sponsorship opportunities, please contact Katie Lay at 479-872-8774 or by e-mail.

More information is available by visiting www.nwafoodbank.org

1378 June Self Drive Bethel Heights, AR 72764 P:479-872-8774 F:479-872-8777


Bank of the Ozarks and the NWA Chapter of the American Red Cross will co-sponsor 9 Community Appreciation Days at the various branch offices throughout the Northwest Arkansas area. These fairs will occur 2 times per month and the Bank of the Ozarks will provide a free lunch to both existing and potential customers in the branch areas.
The Appreciation luncheons will be held from 11:00 – 1:30 on the following dates and locations:

May 23rd – Springdale – Jones Road (Harbor)
June 6th – Rogers – Olive Street
June 20th – Bentonville – Walton and J Streets
July 3rd – Fayetteville – Crossover near Mission Intersection
July 18th – Rogers – Pleasant Crossing near Wal-Mart Super Center
August 1st – Bentonville – Highway 102 near Walton Blvd.
August 15th – Bella Vista – Highlands Branch
August 29th – Fayetteville – Wedington Drive Branch
September 12th – Rogers – New Hope near Promenade Mall

Please join Bank of the Ozarks and the Northwest Arkansas American Red Cross for a friendly lunch and allow us to say “Thank You” for your continued patronage and support.


Fayetteville Chamber

Membership Luncheon
May 16, 2008 12:00 pm - 1:00 pm

6th Annual Fayetteville Chamber of Commerce Business Expo
This year we will be expanding our Expo into a Career Fair, as well!
This event is designed to provide an opportunity for business owners to showcase the products and/or services they offer, plus provide an avenue for employers seeking to fill positions at their companies - all under one roof!
Thurs., June 19, 2008
11:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m.
Fayetteville Town Center
The Career Fair/Business Expo is open to the public and free to job seekers. Please register as soon as possible to secure your exhibition space!


Rogers Chamber:

HURRY! PRICE INCREASES NEXT WEEK - Fish to Win $5,000 – Sign up today for the 17th Annual Beaver Lake Buddy Bass Tournament set for May 31 at Prairie Creek Park in Rogers. You and your buddy could win $5,000 for the heaviest string of bass. Fee for one boat is $110 before May 16. Join platinum sponsors Coleman/Pure Fishing and Sportsman’s Warehouse by competing in a two-, four-, or eight-boat team for your business, club or organization. Download a registration form, or pick one up at the Chamber offices in Rogers or Lowell.

Fit with 5 Team Logs are due by 5 p.m. on May 14. The log can be e-mailed or faxed to 479-636-5485. The Fit with 5 Wrap-up will be held at 4 p.m. on May 21 at the Chamber, and watch the website for the list of top teams!

Don’t Forget to Vote in May 20 Preferential Primary and Nonpartisan Judicial General Election. Early voting is now open at the Benton County offices, 300 W. Poplar St. in downtown Rogers, as well as at the County Courthouse in Bentonville. Polls will be open on May 20 from 7:30 a.m.-7:30 p.m. Learn more about your polling location, voter registration and candidates at www.votenaturally.org.

Leadership Development Program Accepting Applications – Applications for the seventh class of Leadership Benton County are now available, and will be accepted through June 11. Presented by The Morning News, the program provides leadership training specific to the regional issues facing the county, and serves as the chamber’s training ground for future leaders in Benton County. It’s also a great way to quickly meet new people and learn about the area. For more information, contact Megan Cuddy.

International Festival Takes Center Stage in June – Celebrate our area’s cultural diversity at the 8th annual International Festival on June 7 at Frisco Station Mall in Rogers. With International Host Cox Communication, the festival will showcase the food, music, dancing, clothing and languages of more than 26 cultural groups living in northwest Arkansas. Enjoy live entertainment, interesting exhibits and vendors offering native foods and crafts, along with free activities for kids. To participate as a vendor or performer, contact Vilma Dominguez at 479-619-3186.

This Week’s Ribbon Cuttings are Online! Check out the schedule of upcoming ribbon cuttings and ground breakings. Mark your calendar to attend, and contact Stacey Calhoun to join the Ambassador Committee.

Welcome FLW Outdoor Tournament – The $9.5 million Wal-Mart FLW Tour will stop in Rogers this Thursday-Sunday for the $1.5 million Wal-Mart Open hosted by the Rogers Advertising & Promotion Commission. Welcome the 400+ anglers from 37 states, Mexico, Italy, Spain, Australia and Japan with a greeting on your business marquee.

Quarterly Business Breakfast Hosts Special Guest Speaker – The Center for Business and Economic Research in the Sam M. Walton College of Business at the University of Arkansas in partnership with the Northwest Arkansas Chambers of Commerce will host the Q1 2008 Quarterly Business Analysis breakfast on June 4 from 6:45-8 a.m. at Embassy Suites in Rogers. Featuring new St. Louis Federal Reserve Bank President James Bullard as the main speaker, the program and breakfast is $40 per person, with registration required by May 30. Register at http://cber.uark.edu or call 479-575-4151.

Upcoming Events

FYI Lunch & Learn – Learn “Wealth Transfer Strategies and the Facts of Your Life” with Brian Markey of Allstate Financial at the May 23 FYI Lunch & Learn from noon-1 p.m. at the Chamber in Rogers. Presented by First Federal Investment Services, the professional development seminar is free to members. Contact Gretchen Laffoon.

New Member Reception – Learn more about your Chamber membership and programs designed to help your business grow at the next New Member Reception on May 28 from 8:30-10 a.m. at the Chamber. The event is presented by Sam’s Club. The event is free to members, please RSVP by registering online.

Menu for the Future

Menu for the Future
An Arkansas Earth Institute discussion course

hosted by
The ROOT Cafe

The six session course will:
Explore food systems and their impacts on culture, society, and the environment
Cover topics like hunger and poverty, Fair Trade, GMOs and industrial organics, anonymous agriculture, and local and seasonal foods
Offer insight into agricultural and consumer practices that are good for people and the planet
Discuss our role as individuals in creating and supporting sustainable food systems

Come learn about our modern food system
and how we can make it better!

Starting Sunday, June 1st
6-8 PM
at Sustainable Alternatives
(the Big Green House next to Deaf & Blind School
at Markham and Kavanaugh)
Little Rock, Arkansas

Course fee is $20--the price of the book
Group will meet Sundays at 6:00 pm from June 1st through July 13th
Group will not meet on July 4th weekend
Informal course--chairs in a circle, learning together:
"When we sit in a circle, we learn from each other"
-Sitting Bull

To register, call (501) 944-8500 or email

We look forward to seeing you there.

Jack

ChangeThis

Very cool materials. Enjoy! Jeannette

ChangeThis Newsletter No. 46

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446.01
Achieving Business Excellence
by John Spence

There is no single strategy that will carry your company
forever—just ask my buddy Tom Peters, who wrote the
fantastic book In Search of Excellence back in 1982, only
to watch more than half of the companies he highlighted
go out of business! Markets shift, consumer preferences
change, new competitors appear, technology advances—and
so must you.

http://changethis.com/46.01.AchievingExcellence
http://changethis.com/pdf/46.01.AchievingExcellence.pdf


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46.02
Performance Architecture:
A Blueprint to Go “Beyond Personal Best”
by Carlos Salum

Regardless of our profession or activity, adaptation is
what separates peak performers from the rest. The way we
think about pressure influences the way we feel and the way
we react. Conversely, acting is adapting. If we act
confidently and relaxed, our body tells our brain “no problem
here” and we start feeling calm and controlled.

http://changethis.com/46.02.PerformanceArchitecture
http://changethis.com/pdf/46.02.PerformanceArchitecture.pdf


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46.03
PR 2.0: A Communicator’s Manifesto
by Deirdre Breakenridge

PR 2.0 places a whole new meaning and value on PR and
marks the true convergence of PR and the Internet. I
believe that with PR 2.0, a new breed of Web savvy
PR/marketing professionals has been born. As a result
of PR 2.0, brands are able to have conversations directly
with their customers in niche Web communities.

http://changethis.com/46.03.CommunicatorManifesto
http://changethis.com/pdf/46.03.CommunicatorManifesto.pdf



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46.04
The Upside of a Downturn
by Steve Pogorzelski, Jesse Harriott, Ph.D.,
and Doug Hardy

This cycle offers a break in the fevered efforts to
attract and acquire the most talented employees, a chronic
problem that has beset booming economies for the past
decade. To take advantage of a temporary lull in the
chronic shortage of top talent, managers in HR and
executives leading companies must adopt the longer-term
practice we call the Engagement Cycle.

http://changethis.com/46.04.UpsideDownturn

http://changethis.com/pdf/46.04.UpsideDownturn.pdf



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46.05
The L3 Leadership “State of Being”:
A Holistic Approach to Leadership
by Marc Michaelson and John Anderson

L3 Leadership is more about who you are than it is
about what position you hold, what training you have had,
or what personality traits you bring to work and other life
situations. L3 is based on the fact that personal leadership
is a “state of being.” It is who you are, what you believe,
and how you behave.

http://changethis.com/46.05.L3Leadership
http://changethis.com/pdf/46.05.L3Leadership.pdf


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46.06
Connected Intelligence: Leveraging Collective Wisdom
by Vasu Srinivasan


Currently, the only tool that we have in our hands

is Change Management. It is a linear response to the
non-linear set of changes happening in this Poly-Era
(or Era containing multiple Eras). It is so Newtonian.
We need a holistic new paradigm.

This manifesto presents the case for the need of a
Connected Intelligence Operating System.”

http://changethis.com/46.06.ConnectedIntelligence
http://changethis.com/pdf/46.06.ConnectedIntelligence.pdf


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Kundalini Yoga Workshop with Two of the Best

It is official -- RabBoar Studio is thrilled to be offering this unique
opportunity to those of you interested in meditation, internal energy and
personal development and healing. If you already practice Yoga, this
workshop will open your eyes (and your heart) to the deeper aspects of Yoga.
Read all about it in the attached flyer. Registration is now open.

We have reserved a large dance studio near Scottsdale Plaza. (directions
are on the website)

Please reserve your spot ASAP because not only will we be advertising
locally, but this workshop will be advertised nationally. Reservation form
is available on our website.

And for this event, we will be accepting credit cards through PayPal on our
website -- http://www.rabboar.com/studio/Workshops.htm

Thank you all for your continued support.

Namaste,

Pamela
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Verge Wine Cellars: The Wild Stamp

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Women in Networking Meeting May 21st, 2008

May 21st, 2008
Doors Open at 11:30 a.m.
Price is $20, which includes lunch
Meeting Location: Rogers, AR, at the Embassy Suites Hotel

RSVP here.

Fashion Inspiration by Mason's

Denim has survived generation after generation of fashion fads, yet still manages a strong staying power as an essential wardrobe item. Discover how you too can bring the denim look into every aspect of modern life without being another fashion victim. Covering work, play and nightlife this seminar will have you covered. Don't forget the accessories, many women are realizing accessories can quickly energize an outfit, updating it or even change the look completely. Mason's brings with them insightful tips on making those extras look fantastic, not only with inspirational tips using denim, but with your full wardrobe in mind.

You won't want to miss out on this fashion inspired seminar with Masonista's! With current trends in high priority and tips on incorporating these looks and purchases into your wardrobe you're sure to discover new ideas and learn inspiring tips to spice up your life.
Sponsorship Information

Become a sponsor today and show your support for Women In Networking. We have two new sponsorship packages available, for those who have never been sponsors before now is a great time to sign up. If you would like to become a sponsor, send us an email with "Sponsorship" in the subject line or click here.

Level One Sponsorship:
Duration: One ( 1 ) Month
Price: $50.00

Includes the following:

Table display in back of the room
Brief description of your company on agenda / program
Company logo on PowerPoint presentation
Company logo on the Women In Networking website
One additional luncheon ticket

Level Two Sponsorship:
Duration: One ( 1 ) Month
Price: $100.00

Includes the following:
Table display in back of the room
Brief description of your company on the agenda / program
Company logo on PowerPoint presentation
Company logo on the Women In Networking website
Company marketing materials at each place setting
Sixty ( 60 ) second commercial during the sponsored meeting
One additional luncheon ticket
Board members

Michelle Webb: President
Beall Barclay Wealth Management, LLC

Ann Harris: Treasurer
Parkway Bank

Abby Hobbs: Secretary
Doubletree Guest Suites

Leslie Eoff: Co-Chair SFS
GrayMatters

Nancy Milikan: Co-Chair SFS
Wachovia Securities

Kendra Carlson: Board Member
Bentonville/Bella Vista Chamber
Shona Palmer: Board Member
Center for Psychology

Shea Dolan: Board Member
Signature Bank

Julie Coonrod: Board Member
Bank of the Ozarks

Sarah Gladstone: Board Member
Destinations

Theresa Allen: Board Member
Arkansas Open MRI

Special CRN Announcement

5.14.08: For those of you who have met Kim O'Kelley of L&L Mechanical at the networking groups, I wanted to let you know that missed a step and fell 20 feet from a ladder at a site visit Monday afternoon at a church. She dislocated her shoulder, broke a rib and her sacrum (the bone that connects the hips), and punctured a lung. There are still some test results to come to make sure they got everything.

She's in good spirits and they have her pretty medicated for the pain still. She's had lots of visitors so far because you know she knows EVERYBODY.

She's currently in ICU so she can't have flowers but she can have visitors. In fact, the ladies at the welcome desk have her room number memorized. She's at Mercy Hospital in Rogers, room 447.

Carrie

Check Out Ceramic Cow Productions

Hello all!

I just attended a "fun-raiser" for Fayetteville Arts Festival this past Saturday, and the event featured the premiere of Ceramic Cow Productions' new show: The Sixth Marriage of Pearl Ernestina Santiago Finklestein Washington Tankoshitsu Covington nee Gates. Attendance was fantastic, and the show was not only a riot but really engaging and fun for everyone. If you ever get a chance to see one of Julie Gabel and Mark Landon Smith's shows, I hope you take it and drag a bunch of friends with you. Here's more info about the company:

http://ceramiccowllc.tripod.com/

I Support The Vision Of The Fayetteville Arts Festival! FayettevilleDowntown.org

Benefit for the Zach Rongers Medical Fund on Thursday, May 29

Friends,

You are invited to a benefit for the Zach Rongers Medical Fund on Thursday, May 29 from 6-9pm at SpeakEasy in Fayetteville. Zach was diagnosed with Hodgkin's Lymphoma in 2002. After treatments and many battles, Zach is faced with this disease for the third time. He is currently undergoing chemotherapy in preparation for an umbilical cord blood stem cell transplant at MD Anderson Cancer Center in Houston, Texas. This is a relatively new procedure that offers a chance for a long-term CURE!

The transplant procedure will be physically grueling and emotionally tough, and will require Zach to live in the Houston metropolitan area with a caregiver for 100 days after the transplant. He will be away from home for four months. During that time, Erin will want to be by his side as much as work, time and money allows. They will be faced with paying a mortgage and utilities in Fayetteville AND renting an apartment in Houston. They will also have prescriptions, medical bills and the cost of travel to and from Houston. When Erin is away from wark caring for Zach, she will be taking an unpaid leave from her job as the Public Affairs Coordinator at the Donald W. Reynolds Boys & Girls Club of Fayetteville. With neither of them bringing in an income when they are in Houston, things will be extremely difficult.

If you would like to help, please mark your calendars for Thursday, May 29 and plan to join us for Hors d'oeuvres and live music by Effron White and Keith Vire for the first portion of the evening, with a live DJ to follow later in the evening, as we raise funds for Zach and Erin Rongers. Tickets are $25 at the door with all proceeds benefitting Zach's medical fund. If you can't attend, and want to help, you can make a donation to the Zach Rongers Medical Fund at any First Federal Bank Branch. For more details on how you can help with the event, please call LaDonna Meredith at 966-0471.

For more information on Zach's battle with Hodgkin's Lymphoma, visit www.caringbridge.org/visit/zachrongers.

We hope to see you there!
Sincerely,
LaDonna Meredith

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For Funding Fayetteville Arts Festival

From The Iconoclast Blog:

For Funding the Fayetteville Arts Festival


Last year, the Fayetteville Arts Festival drew about 9,000 visitors to our city to explore and enjoy the wonders of local artists -- poets, painters, performers, and many more talents. Most of us enjoy the arts and the festival for the experience and because they are an essential part of what makes Fayetteville unique. That should be enough, but it is not. Despite the tremendous volunteer effort to produce and promote the Fayetteville Arts Festival, it is in danger of dying because of a lack of funding.

Last year, the
Advertising and Promotion Commission awarded $35,000 for the arts festival; this year they gave it nothing. This seems like exactly the type of project the A&P Commission should be supporting. It builds on our image that they are charged with marketing, and it brings in visitors and their dollars for the local economy. It is more important than buying a building, expanding the size of the staff, or hording millions in reserve.

Alderman
Lioneld Jordan is sponsoring a Resolution requesting that the A&P Commission contribute to funding the Fayetteville Arts Festival at the same $35,000 level as last year. It is on the agenda for the City Council meeting on May 20th. If you have an opinion about continued funding for the arts festival, you can contact your Aldermen or show up at City Hall next Tuesday to speak to the resolution.

Regardless of the vote of the City Council on Jordan's Resolution,
Marilyn Heifner, executive director of the A&P Commission, said it will be up to the commission whether any funding is granted for the festival. The seven commission members who will make the final decision are Dan Coody, Bob Davis, Robert Rhodes, Neal Crawford, Tim Freeman, Maudie Schmitt, and Pat Gazzola. Here is their contact information (except the city website still lists former commissioner McGeady) if you wish to talk with them and let them know your views about supporting the arts in our community.

If the City Council and the Advertising and Promotion Commission will not support spending $35,000 to help the Fayetteville Arts Festival survive, that will be an indication of how serious they are about doing anything to support expansion of the
Walton Arts Center in Fayetteville.

Deadline to Apply for Fayetteville Arts Festival 08 Is Today!

Go here to donate, support the festival and apply online!
www.fayettevilledowntown.org

Green Valley Network Invites You To A Reception and Presentation of the Kiljorn Foam Glass Building Technique

Join the Green Valley Network for a Reception and Presentation of the Kiljorn Foam Glass Building Technique

Wednesday, May 21st, 2008
6:30 p.m., Fayetteville Public Library
401 West Mountain Street
Fayetteville, AR

No cost
Information About
Kiljorn & Green Valley Network

"I think everyone will be interested in the Swedish initiative we have launched to bring some of Sweden's best sustainability ideas and companies to NWA.

Ake Mard, inventor and owner of the Koljern Foam Glass Building Technique, will give a presentation at the Fayetteville Public Library.
Everyone is invited to attend, learn what this highly energy efficient building system is all about, and then ask questions."

~ Steve Rust, Fayetteville Economic Development Council

For more information on the company, visit the Kiljorn website.

For more information on the network, visit the Green Valley Network website

Sincerely,

Amy Robinson
Springline Consulting Group

WWW.NWAHOMES.COM COMES TO THE PAGES OF THE ADG REAL ESTATE SUNDAY SECTION

Starting on Sunday May 5th the ADG Sunday Real Estate Showcase Section became www.NWAHOMES.COM both in print and on-line.

With over 1.5 million pages viewed each month on line and over 51,000 Sunday subscribers reading the ADG Real Estate Section we will offer the best of both worlds to real estate buyers and sellers alike.

Use your web site address in your ad or list the company web address in your ad and it will hyperlink to your site when viewed on-line. Even ads that are contained within your company ad will link to either your site or the company, site depending on what you list within your ad. Prime Location ads are also linked to the address you chose in your ad space.

www.NWAHOMES.COM will be on-line for an entire week for viewing, from Sunday to the next Sunday our on-line readers will have access to your ad and your web site.

If you're a reader of Whole Hog Sports.com then you can also access www.NWAHOMES.com from those pages as well. Navigation bars are located at both on-line sites to help readers flow into the www.NWAHOMES.com site.

How about dong a virtual tour on line, we can handle that as well for only $100 per week your virtual tour can be seen 24/7 for seven days and be linkable to your web page as well. We will limit our virtual tours to five per week, that will appear on a rotating basis to help assure ample viewing of each listing.


If I can be of assistance in using the new on-line addition then give me a call at 263-7151 or email to tscantlin@nwanews.com.

Green Heart Initiative: Fayetteville Commercial Recycling Pilot

Read press release here.

Read Green Heart Initiative Guidelines here.
Read Green Heart Initiative Coverage here.

BACKGROUND
Today Fayetteville does not have a city commercial recycling program for retailers, multifamily housing, offices, restaurants and bars that parallels its highly effective and highly regarded residential initiative, Pay As You Throw. The City commissioned a study of the feasibility and “best practices” for commercial recycling.

Many downtown businesses now independently take their business recycling to their homes or make weekly trips to the recycling facility. The high level of interest and commitment among bar and restaurant owners to reduce their trash stream through recycling offered the opportunity for a coordinated pilot. In addition, their interest is to reduce their carbon footprint through environmental stewardship—a key element of sustainability.

COMMERCIAL RECYCLING PILOT
Local small business and hospitality owners repeatedly asked for an opportunity to test a commercial recycling initiative during conversations I had with them.

As a market researcher and strategic planning consultant, I saw the opportunity for a “real-life” test. The time was right for engaged small business owners to participate in a pilot initiative to test and record the opportunities and challenges facing a commercial recycling program. Together we could test commercial recycling under local conditions and with local personalities. The pilot gives the opportunity for involvement, debate, and consensus.

The pilot is not intended to distract from the City study or to compete with it. Rather, it is to provide both anecdotal and third party assessment of what is experienced in a local six-month pilot. The pilot is called the Fayetteville Green Heart Initiative.

Participating study partners will sign an agreement to participate in the full study, agree to maintain records, meet monthly, and share their experiences. In return, they will receive promotional materials to indicate their involvement in the Green Heart Initiative.

Study partners sign an agreement to track their recycling progress and activity, note and share challenges and opportunities, identify worker and patron attitude changes, and make a monthly assessment of their experience with the pilot program schedule and impact.

An independent third-party assessor will monitor the program and evaluate the impact and technology.

ELEMENTS OF THE PILOT STUDY
In March I met with Tom Smith, owner of Roll Off Service, Inc., to explore his experience, expertise, and interest in commercial recycling. A tour of his facilities and subsequent conversations led to a six-month commercial recycling pilot project that invites business owners on Dickson Street and the Fayetteville Square to participate.

The test is planned to use four recycling sites.

The pilot will be video recorded and participating business owners interviewed each month to capture the evolving sense of the initiative.

Participating businesses have the opportunity to recycle cardboard, chipboard, aluminum cans, steel cans, newspaper, magazines, junk mail, white paper, plastic bottles, telephone books, books, and office paper in a single stream, in a single central recycling container. Glass and bottles are recycled separately, in another container, for safety reasons. Broken glass in the recycling stream can be a danger to Roll Off line personnel.

Roll Off will collect the recycling at no charge to the participants. Roll Off will use the pilot to test the sustainability of commercial recycling using its Fayetteville transfer station and existing technology.

Throughout the pilot Roll Off and the pilot participants may experiment with altered collection schedules, recycling techniques and brokerages to determine the market demand for the range of recycled materials.

NEXT STEPS
Discussions are under way to add recycling of kitchen refuse and Styrofoam to the pilot after the initial three-month trial period.

WHY A RECYCLING PROJECT AS PART OF A POLITICAL CAMPAIGN?
Simple: Any candidate can talk about commitment to sustainability. I chose to demonstrate the leadership, practical thinking, and collaborative skills that I bring to the office of Mayor of Fayetteville. I chose to “walk the talk.”

It is also very easy to make promises that might or might not come to fruition following the campaign. I believe that Fayetteville should get a chance to see what they are getting as their next Mayor.

Public announcement of the Green Heart commercial recycling pilot, Thursday, April 17, 2008, by Walt Eilers. View photos here.

Walt Eilers for Mayor Committee, Daniel McCormick, Treasurer

Kids Talk News Publishes 200TH NEWSLETTER!

200th Kids Talk Newsletter!

May 17, 2008

Learning to Request What You Need

At the heart of our relationships is the need for effective communication. Our objective is to build a relationship based on honesty and empathy. The two basic components of effective communication consists of two skills:

1) Expressing observations, feelings and needs honestly while withholding blame and criticism.

2) Receiving information from others without hearing blame or criticism, while asking questions to understand the other person's observations, feelings and needs.

Our next step in effective communication is to request what we need in order to enrich our lives.

We can use the following sentence to help us separate feeling from opinion and then connect feelings to a need:

I feel (emotion) because I need or want (spiritual or physical need).

With this clarity of feelings and need, we are ready to request what we need.

How we make the request is vital. Requests to others are more likely to be accurately received when sent in clear positive language. We wouldn't dream of going into a restaurant and telling the waitress, I don't want a hamburger, and expect to get the spinach salad we want. Much less expect the waitress to bring us a spinach salad without our uttering a word.

Unfortunately, we expect many of our requests to be understood without directly making a request, or our requests to others are framed in don't statements. Don't forget. Don't be late. Don't touch. Don't statements tell others what we don't want instead of what we do want. Why do we use don't statements? Because we lack inner clarity about what we really want.

Perhaps making clear requests seems selfish to us. Many of us were raised to be happy with what we were given and not to ask for any thing else.

Or perhaps we've never taken the time to truly consider what situation, items or cooperation we need in order to fill our needs and desires.

Vague requests probably can't be accommodated by others and also contribute to self-confusion. If we want to eat and only say, I'm hungry, we may or may not end up with something to eat and could be surprised by what we do end up with to eat.

If we can express ourselves clearly using our feelings and needs with the request, we are more likely to obtain what we want. For example, saying, ''I'm hungry. I need to eat soon. I think I'd like to make a peanut butter sandwich,'' will probably get you what you want more than just saying, ''I'm hungry.'' In addition, you'll have a clear idea and avoid self-confusion.

Oftentimes we are unaware of what we are requesting, like those times when we stand in front of the refrigerator with the door open. We're hungry or bored, but we don't know what we want.

Request or demand? A request can sound more like a demand when we don't express our feelings and needs along with the request. ''I want a peanut butter sandwich,'' may come across as a tantrum waiting to happen.

When another person hears a demand from us, the usual response is either to give in or to rebel. How can we tell if a communication has been framed as a request or a demand?

When the speaker's request is not answered with compliance, we need to observe the speaker's behavior. With a demand the speaker may try to criticize, judge, blame or lay a guilt trip on us. For example, watch for statements from the speaker such as these: You never listen to me. You are a terrible mother. I'll get sick if I don't eat. You don't love me. Sound familiar?

With a request a speaker will show understanding with the receiver's needs. Using our peanut butter sandwich example, if the response was ''Dinner is in 15 minutes. Can you wait to eat?'' what responses might we expect, from a demanding person and a requesting person?

With a demand, we might expect a criticizing, blaming or judging response, in an effort to manipulate us into compliance. With a request, we might hear two basic responses: ''Yes, I can wait,'' or, "No, I need to eat something as soon as possible.''

Help your children learn the difference between a demand and a request, so they can make requests to improve their lives, and yours.

Next week: Receiving Information with Understanding and Compassion

This is one in a series of columns on effective communication.

Kids Talk™ is a column dealing with early childhood development issues written by Maren Stark Schmidt. Mrs. Schmidt founded a Montessori school and holds a Masters of Education from Loyola College in Maryland.

She has over 25 years experience working with young children and holds teaching credentials from the Association Montessori Internationale. She is also Creative Director for a video-based reading series for children ages three to six, The Shining Light Reading Series. Contact her via e-mail at maren@shininglightreading.com.

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Please Join KIVA - Loans That Change Lives

Howdy, all!

I just made a loan to someone in the developing world using a revolutionary new website called Kiva.

You can go to Kiva's website and lend to someone in the developing world who needs a loan for their business - like raising goats, selling vegetables at market or making bricks. Each loan has a picture of the entrepreneur, a description of their business and how they plan to use the loan so you know exactly how your money is being spent - and you get updates letting you know how the entrepreneur is going.

The best part is, when the entrepreneur pays back their loan you get your money back - and Kiva's loans are managed by microfinance institutions on the ground who have a lot of experience doing this, so you can trust that your money is being handled responsibly.

I just made a loan to an entrepreneur named Gonçalo Dos Santos Nhampossa in Mozambique. They still need another $550.00 to complete their loan request of $850.00 (you can loan as little as $25.00!). Help me get this entrepreneur off the ground by clicking on the link below to make a loan to Gonçalo Dos Santos Nhampossa too:

http://www.kiva.org/app.php?page=businesses&action=about&id=47726

It's finally easy to actually do something about poverty - using Kiva I know exactly who my money is loaned to and what they're using it for. And most of all, I know that I'm helping them build a
sustainable business that will provide income to feed, clothe, house and educate their family long after my loan is paid back.

Join me in changing the world - one loan at a time.

Thanks!
Jeannette

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What others are saying about www.Kiva.org:

'Revolutionising how donors and lenders in the US are connecting with small entrepreneurs in developing countries.'
-- BBC

'If you've got 25 bucks, a PC and a PayPal account, you've now got the wherewithal to be an international financier.'
-- CNN Money

'Smaller investors can make loans of as little as $25 to specific individual entrepreneurs through a service launched last fall by Kiva.org.'
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Check it out!
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We Let You Loan to the Working Poor

Kiva's mission is to connect people through lending for the sake of alleviating poverty.

Kiva is the world's first person-to-person micro-lending website, empowering individuals to lend directly to unique entrepreneurs in the developing world.

The people you see on Kiva's site are real individuals in need of funding - not marketing material. When you browse entrepreneurs' profiles on the site, choose someone to lend to, and then make a loan, you are helping a real person make great strides towards economic independence and improve life for themselves, their family, and their community. Throughout the course of the loan (usually 6-12 months), you can receive email journal updates and track repayments. Then, when you get your loan money back, you can relend to someone else in need.

Kiva partners with existing expert microfinance institutions. In doing so, we gain access to outstanding entrepreneurs from impoverished communities world-wide. Our partners are experts in choosing qualified entrepreneurs. That said, they are usually short on funds. Through Kiva, our partners upload their entrepreneur profiles directly to the site so you can lend to them. When you do, not only do you get a unique experience connecting to a specific entreprenuer on the other side of the planet, but our microfinance partners can do more of what they do, more efficiently.

Kiva provides a data-rich, transparent lending platform. We are constantly working to make the system more transparent to show how money flows throughout the entire cycle, and what effect it has on the people and institutions lending it, borrowing it, and managing it along the way. To do this, we are using the power of the internet to facilitate one-to-one connections that were previously prohibitively expensive. Child sponsorship has always been a high overhead business. Kiva creates a similar interpersonal connection at much lower costs due to the instant, inexpensive nature of internet delivery. The individuals featured on our website are real people who need a loan and are waiting for socially-minded individuals like you to lend them money.

Romance Writers Group?

Does anyone know of a Romance Writers Group in Northwest Arkansas? If so, please let Carrie Smith know at 479.636.SOAR. Thank you!

5.02.2008

Garage Sale Saturday! Fine Items, Bargain Prices!

More info: http://www.scribemarketing.com/garagesale.html